Wednesday, June 27, 2012

It arrived!

After what was probably a lovely overnight stay in Paris (according to the tracking), I am happy to report that our paperwork (I-800 approval and DS-230 forms) all arrived at Magda's doorstep safe and sound!  It was signed by someone in her family so at least we know it was actually delivered, lol.  Now to wait for the Article 5 and those darn dates. 

To avoid obsessing and worrying about these things that are out of my control, I decided to distract myself by concocting a wonderful daydream about the fantastical night our package must have enjoyed in Par-ee.  I can see him now (yes, I decided the package was male).....

It is evening.  A beautiful, clear summer evening with a soft, gentle breeze every so often.  There are many people out tonight and the city is full of life; yet it feels relaxed and a calmness permeates every fiber of one's being (or paper), putting a smile on faces for no reason other than they are content.  He is sitting at a small outdoor cafe on the Left Bank- the table with a red and white checked tablecloth and a small lit candle.  The candle provides a fabulous ambiance as it reflects the orange and blue off his envelope, evoking the colors seen between a summer sunset and twilight on a clear, starry night.  Ratatouille-esque music is playing softly in the background and the gentle glow from the City of Lights can be seen above the buildings.  He has with a dark blue beret balanced delicately on his upper left corner (right above "FedEx") and he sips on a delicate rose', while nibbling cheese and warm croissants. 

Ahh, Paris.......

*See it works, right?  lol lol lol

Friday, June 22, 2012

Freaking Finally!

So for the crudity of the title, but if you had had to jump through as many piddly hoops as we did the last 2 weeks, you would be screaming it from the rooftops as well.

About that long ago, we got the notice form USCIS telling us that our home study had not received approval from the state of SC for our I-800A extension.  We were dumbfounded because our social worker (who has been doing these for many years) had told us the state didn't require it so we didn't think about it.  Lina did ask us if SC needed to approve the home study- don't even get me started on the fact she should know these things instead of us and should have guided us appropriately...but I digress!   Anyway, we said we had checked with our SW and she said no so we thought we were good to go.

Then the pink letter from USCIS...

Needless to say, I was ticked!  And very ticked at our SW especially who we really trusted!   It appears she truly did not know you needed to get the state's approval (SC is only one of a very few who still require this) and as you can imagine, the officer at the state DSS was NOT happy with her when she found out she had told us we did not need it.  I'm thinking some re-training and words will be exchanged there. 

Luckily- and I will spare you most of the details here- we were able to contact our USCIS officer who is AWESOME and the state official in the DSS who was equally AWESOME and they both expedited getting the approval done quickly so things could keeping moving along.  The two officers emailed back and forth and cc'ed us on everything (better than the adoption agency most times).  These two amazing ladies totally devoted themselves to helping us out and getting this cleared up as fast as possible and we will be eternally grateful to them!

Our USCIS officer was extra awesome too because she continued working on our I-800 and I-864 paperwork we had sent in while waiting for the paper copy of the state's approval (they sent an electronic copy that allowed her to do this).  As a result, our paperwork was not delayed for the I-800 and we got our provisional approval in the same time frame would have originally!  In fact, IT ARRIVED TODAY!!!   What could be better than that?  Well, I'll tell ya!

Not only did we get things timely, our officer also sent it in the Fed Ex Overnight envelope we had sent with our I-800 application (something that had not happened before).  But the package was bigger than just a letter and when I looked inside, I found the other two Fed Ex Overnight envelopes we had sent to USCIS previously that had never been used to send things back by our first officer.  What a fabulous surprise!  Even if we don't use them again, I was super impressed at our officer's thoroughness in handling our case and ensuring everything was complete, right down to returning these envelopes.

So, we have filled out our DS-230 forms and have the provisional approval all ready to go to Magda tomorrow Fed Ex International ASAP (not even going to look at the cost when I sign the receipt).  Then we are desperately hoping to be in Poland soon after that with a short bonding period so we can make it back for school to start.

On the home front, we have been skyping with A every two weeks and everything has been going great.  He called us Mama and Tato and asks every time when we are coming to get him.  So cute!  The foster family also just got two other smaller children there so I think A feels crowded a bit, lol.  He has been very talkative and especially loves seeing the dogs on Skype.  We have completed his room and just re-did his closet with some drawers, shelves, and hanger rods to make it look nicer and customize it for his use.

So we are hoping to hear about dates soon and will update when we know!

Take care all!
**congrats to Krystyna!  She is reunited with her girls for their bonding period that just started!
**congrats to Kara and Tom who just turned in their dossier to China!

 ****UPDATE:  I-800 and DS-230 forms sent out this am (Mon) international overnight (which  basically means Wednesday).  Still, woo-freaking-hoo!!!!